A mother’s love is irreplaceable, it can literally make or break a man. Mothers must honor this highly esteemed position, that is bestowed upon them, from the GOD’s, themselves. The bond between mother and child, is like no other…GRAND, to say the least..because it’s considered celestial, representing, one of, unconditional love.
Unfortunately, we do have some Mothers that abuse their position in their son’s lives and that can have adverse effects…it destroys their sons. Women, manipulating their sons, as if they’re, their substitute husband. Not cool, ladies. There is a clinical term for that kind of relationship dynamic but I will leave that for the psychologist to explain. Just know it’s extremely toxic.
Men, ALL women lose respect for you and we immediately, get turned off, if and when, we see your mother running your life. Please do not allow it. We understand the bond but please make sure it’s healthy…we can’t, won’t and should never have to compete with your mom. It’s a lose, lose battle for all. That mess is toxic to the core. She’s your Mom, there is no comparison to any other woman. Period. So why would you allow the blurring of lines, in that type of dynamic? You don’t date your mom. Get that mess under control. It’s a really bad look. Grow up.
It subconsciously tells women everywhere that you’re still a child…and, that is not an impression you want to make on a woman, you want in your life, long term. Because…now that woman becomes embarrassed for even considering you, as someone worthy or ready to date. In other words your mama is the “cock blocker” that’s so bad. Read the article, “Cock Blocker” click link here, https://triddykatsmeow.com/cock-blocker
A mama’s boy’s “Mother” is literally the “Other” woman in the relationship…but his woman has no way to really fight against that kind of foolishness except to remove herself. That’s a no-no Fellas. Please don’t do it. Keep healthy boundaries in place in all of your relationships. You’ll be so glad that you did. It’s smart to keep your ladies’ respect. You’ve earned it or she wouldn’t be with you. Please respect, just how important that is in and for your relationship.
Whether one recognizes it or not, it’s extremely toxic because it “IS” a THIRD party relationship…period. Wherever, there is too many energies involved, conflict and confusion are guaranteed to consume and take over it. Get all of those energies out of your relationship…and, for goodness sake, Maintain healthy boundaries, people.
Keep up those healthy boundaries, folks. Smile.
Keep shining.
~Triddy Kat 💋
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