Beware of illusions. Success is an illusion that will tempt us, all. What is success?…And what does it look like to you? How far are you willing to go to achieve it? Most people equate money to success. Others equate having material things as success. No one can say that either is wrong because both, give one a Voice.
I used to believe money was the only thing that can make another person extremely envious or jealous of you. I quickly, realized that money is only one part of it. Material gains are another but the truth is…Success is living life on your own terms. “False success” is living life, on other people’s terms (Society) then, pretending they’re your own…Giving your power (individuality) away, to belong or fit in. Others become exceptionally envious, when you are in tune with your true Authentic Self or when you are aligned with the will of God, for your life.
A whole lot of people are not sure what their purpose in life is..they are too distracted, by life’s many distractors. The pandemic gave us time to reflect on our lives. To re-evaluate which path we were headed on. To take a real look at and see ourselves. Some like what they saw, others found they were living a lie and decided to change route. Another group, didn’t like what they found but remained there. Many, from that last group were too afraid to change it. What would people think? The most dangerous group of people… are the ones afraid of change.
They let fear rule them and then, they become envious of the people that have the courage to change their lives and/or pursue their dreams. Those are dream killers. I recommend you avoid them like the plague, once they’re identified. If its family members, you will have to learn how to love them, from a distance. They project their insecurities on to others. They come around to celebrate the failures of others, etc. Someone or something in their lives, discouraged them, from pursuing their dreams, now… they discourage others.
I thank the Creator for the gift of “detachment.” Catching so much hell earlier in life, from others..taught me to detach, to survive the bull crap their choices, placed me in. Today, I no longer live in survival mode but I do pay attention to red flags. I pay attention to others energy. People manipulate energy but sooner or later, they will expose themselves. That’s why patience is a virtue, it reveals all things. Learn to be respect it. Source has never deceived me. It can spare you a lot of pain later on because the truth will always resonate.
False success, is any illusion where we have to pretend, to maintain a lifestyle. I found people are more jealous of another person’s happiness, than they are of their money. People get so worried about what others think of them, that they place themselves in mental prisons. Unfortunately, the best example of this, is a lot of married women. I would say men too but most men, will not allow you to make them miserable, for long. They will leave. I found more married women, then men, living the lie of false success, to save face. They make do with it until a woman that refuses to live the lie, comes along. This woman stirs the inner demons in a lot of people because so many people have no true power. They gave it away, to get along. Her living in her truth, can cause an uproar in many hearts and minds.
Now, I understand, why so many hated Jesus. It was truth and him being free, that scared the hell out of the Pharisees. They had their customs, traditions and religious ceremonies but no true power. They were not free. “Who the Son sets free, is free indeed.” Being authentic and your true self is rare but it frees your soul. Most people conform, just to get along. Jesus did not and spoke truth …That is the “Double–edged sword” …it cuts and pierces the hearts of all, especially of liars. No liar can take standing, toe to toe, with truth. To not be afraid of walking away or speaking your truth takes lots of guts. It threatens all that are afraid. Truth won’t conform. It makes enemies with men and women alike because it illuminates lies.
People living life on their own terms are not threatened by the people that aren’t. I’ve found, only the ones, that aren’t living the lives they want, are threatened. Unfortunately, these are some really covert people..they appear to be successful but if you don’t live your life on your terms: Are you successful or are you living in false success? They are not living their truth. I encountered this spirit all of my life…and, I demolish it. I refuse to let people blame or project their pain or insecurities on to me. I’m no one’s scapegoat. Take accountability for your own mess and decisions. No one can make you do anything. You were lead astray.
That spirit of jealousy is not only over material gains, it’s of your true wealth…The gifts of the Spirit, your personality, peace of mind, joy and self confidence. Things money can not buy. Your transparency, courage and assertiveness. Destructive people won’t admit until they heal, they’re a major detriment to you. They know it, they pray that you don’t know it. When you avoid them, that spirit of anger will appear. They began to resort to immature things, like spreading gossip, rumors or lies about you. Who cares? Why would you care what a peon has to say about you? They’re not able to buy your status, you have favor with the Most High. You conduct yourself as one that knows who you are. Remember this…Regal bloodlines know better. Remove yourself from engaging with rift raft, let them do whatever it is, that rift raft does.
I, too, love the symbols and trinkets of success, just like the rest of us. Yet, I’m not defined by the things or money..None of that makes or breaks me because it can not, define me. I am so much more. I achieve no matter what. People that fall for the illusion of success can not separate themselves, from their money, title or things. That’s why they will do anything to have or keep them. Please, know you’re so much more than things or a bank account. You don’t worship things. It is Source that gives us life. You must understand that you’re so much more, then things…for you, possess a soul and the breathe of the true living God. Honor it.
It is you that makes the money, the money should never make you. We have things to make life easier but do you know who you are without them? I dated nothing but ballers and hustlers growing up. We loved our material things and went hard for them but I hated when guys let their material gains, make or break them…or define them. Things don’t define you or your worth. I love nice things, too but only I determine my worth. No-one else.
Your career, money or materials don’t make you a high value person, it makes you a person that has a nice job with money and nice things. I personally, consider a high value man to be a man of valor. A man the walks in integrity and character, that places high value on his relationship with his children and…that has a personal relationship with Source. Why did I leave out him loving his mate? Because I know personally, from experience, that men that honor the Creator, wholeheartedly, make the greatest mates. I’ve only found disaster comes to a man, when he takes his eyes off loving and listening to Source…as the final authority in his life.
I know as long as a man, nurtures and values his relationship with Source, he shall be taught and shown, how to nurture and love a mate and relationships, too. Your values must align. Start there. Stop all this competing in relationships, that’s for fools. It’s divisive, diminishing the value of one another and Love, when Love is the only thing real. Wake up from all this goofy sh*t. It doesn’t align with Source. As if, one is better than the other. Are y’all serious? We are to work together and build. Unite, the day is coming when you will need one another to survive.
I know who I am, so with or without material things, I am successful. I can create no matter what or with whom or where I am. Therefore; I co-create with the Universe. Strife and contentious people turn their gifts off with their foolishness. That’s why we were warned to put foolish behavior behind us. I have fun but I don’t place my value on my things. That’s what makes others jealous of you. It’s that…knowing thyself.
That cover picture is of my car, not last summer but several summers ago, back in my hometown, Nyc (my sons are off to the side, though you can only see the oldest, tallest one). A person very close to me, that was extremely envious, got together with other envious people to take it from me. They devised a wicked plot but that’s now on them and Source. I walked away from it because they were purposely causing me distress over my car, a Range Rover, that I drove for 11 years but again…jealousy, over things.
Many plotted night and day, to take things that I earned from working, things that I owned, that they sat back and coveted. Yes, it’s sad but who cares? I asked for help but corrupt officials, ignored truth. All, looked the other way. I sought help but no one cared or offered protection, from coveting thieves. My question to you, “Can you walk away, knowing you’re in the right, leaving your things with thieves while no one cares because the lies were much more entertaining?” You will be tested, please don’t fail over things. Can the Divine trust you? You will be vindicated but only in Divine timing. Focus on your healing. Keep pushing forward. Ain’t nothing weak about you. They will find out slowly but surely, that they’ve only deceived themselves. Take no Judas serious.
People will talk smack because they are jealous of your Spirit. You don’t have to do anything them, they want to be you and hate that you’re actually living and walking in your truth. Anything, I have or had…I got from legitimate, hard work…using my God given abilities and intelligence…not by stealing, scheming, lying or scamming others. Plain old-fashioned hard work. There is dignity and nobility in that. That’s what haters covet. They came after true wealth and success. My sense of Self, Peace of mind, Stability, Security and Dignity but it all remains in tact, along with my Character and Integrity. They stole from me but I stand in truth. They can’t do the same because they are all liars. That’s on them, “I remain unshakeable.” Their deceitful actions were used for my good, to trigger my awakening of rebirth and transformation. I bank on Source and Truth. The truth can not be hidden forever. My success is far from the illusions of false success. Nothing I experienced was is in vain.
I’ve learned that no one owes you anything, you owe it your self to be true to you…and to look out for yourself. The sooner we learn that, the better off, we all, will be. I had to closely examine the people that I had in my life. A whole lot of them were rotten to the core. Coveting my gifts for themselves. I see things clearly now. Tribulation, usually brings one the gift of clarity. I departed from them and I am so glad that I did. It was necessary to learn myself. I could no longer ignore the deceitful behavior of so many that claimed to love me. I finally woke up. I began to see things just as they are, no more of how I hoped, they’d be.
Who do you spend the most time with? They are, what you’ll become. Be mindful of those that hang around you, pray for discernment. Some people want to hang with you for clout and your things…Remove yourself, tell them, “Favor ain’t fair.“ You’ve done the work. Everything has gone as it should. It only looked like you’d lost, you haven’t lost a thing. Now, sit back and watch. “God will not be mocked.“ Source was always on your side, you just needed to do the work on you and HEAL. That was so you wouldn’t be overwhelmed by what is about to exposed, about the people that were pretending around you. You won’t be angry because you already knew. You are just getting confirmation that you can trust your intuition. It was Source, whispering to you. Here comes the truth. Aren’t you sooo glad that you did the work? I know that I am.
Keep Shining.
~Triddy Kat 💋
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