Interference

Interference , which basically is defined as an obstruction. The illegal hindering of an opponent in Sports. Life is a sport, people. Please alter your perspective, so you can spot anyone trying to run interference in your life. Something that produces such confusion…that is interference, also. Most of the time interference can also be viewed as a pressure test too. I think of diamonds when I use the word, pressure. So have you learned to navigate through, life’s pressure test, yet? Trust me, just keep living, you will…and that’ll lead you to finding your very own diamond. Interference. Kin to pressure.

Anyone that has mastered this skill, of getting through interferences is likely someone that holds him or her self …and others, accountable and gives others room to grow..autonomy. Autonomy is the quality or state of being self-governing. No one said it would be easy guys…but we are the only ones responsible, for our own happiness. So how well do you self-govern? No one else owes you a thing. I don’t care what you have done for anyone…no one owes you anything. Stop it with this entitlement thinking. That’s extremely a narcissistic mindset. It’s toxic. Don’t do it. Get over yourself. Nobody owes you sh*t. Period. That’s slang, guys.

I keep thinking of the subject of partnership or marriage now. I listened to the radio the other day…Frank Ski, had a caller saying that he was leaving his wife for someone else. I loved the response of Frank Ski..He said that the caller’s issue wasn’t the wife or the other woman, it was with the caller, himself. I was utterly blown away! Frank Ski was 100% correct but I was more impressed at Frank Ski’s level of emotional immaturity to see that. He recognized the interference and called it out. Kudos to Frank Ski, for being spot on. This caller had used the interference of infidelity and not healing himself, to open a door to a mistress but the mistress isn’t the true issue… she’s only the symptom of the caller’s unhealed broken heart, an ailing soul wanting to evolve but lacking the emotional maturity, to do things with decency and order.

I experienced a divorce, from a twenty year marriage, riddled with infidelity and all the drama that comes along with decades of a legal union, guys …And I promise you, none of it was about the people outside of the union. They are merely place holders. Be it friends, in-laws or the mistress, etc. all are nothing more than interferences. Unions can survive anything, if both parties still want it. Those interferences are things that the couple, must learn to successfully, navigate together or it will fold, underneath the pressure. All unions will be tested in the pressure cooker of life. Just remember, Pressure burst pipes. That’s slang, guys.

In my case, it was more about both, not having boundaries, addressing our own personal issues from our childhood…that was designed, to come out in marriage. Marriage and relationships are to help one another, heal properly but most of us didn’t get that memo. I know, I sure didn’t. I toted all of my issues along, all of those issues that I refused to address because I had no positive examples of what healthy marriages looked like. No one did. People just did what they were taught, healthy or not. I just knew, women stayed put at the expense of their own soul’s evolution. How freaking scary is that? My soul was ready to evolve, I didn’t need permission to do that. But where were the examples? No one needs permission to evolve. You’re here to Evolve. And, Evolve, you must.

When your soul learns the life lesson, people move on but society usually tries to shame them…Why? Your soul is here to evolve, so please let it. Do the work or shame and regret will keep you stuck. You’re to let go of low vibe people, work on healing. Learn your life lessons or you will become stagnate and stressed out. Why? Because you are doing the same things all over again, you’re failing your test... You are refusing to grow up..so you are stuck. That’s on you. You know better. Nobody feels sorry for you, when you keep playing with toxicity. Source can’t be fooled either. Read the article, “Testing” click link here, TESTING

Look at your life…see the pattern? You hang around toxic friends, dealing with that toxic *ss family, sleeping with that toxic partner, employed at that toxic job and still engaging in toxic environments. You claim that you want success? No you don’t, you want to remain toxic. A damn fool. You’re immature. You want people to feel sorry for you. That toxic lifestyle includes…Stress, anxiety, depression, codependency and drama..You are a glutton for punishment…and, your lifestyle proves that you lack self love. Period. Slang. Read the article,”Patterns” click link here, Patterns

Let’s see…You refuse to go do the healing work on you. You are around people that want to keep you away from growing up and healing. Yet; you want people that have done their work on themselves, to be with or around you? Are you nuts? You offer nothing but karmic lessons until you grow up and heal. It’s the interference.

When you mastered your soul’s lesson, you will crave change. There is nothing wrong with that..it’s called evolution. Doing the work releases youJust do things decent and in order. Too many people do shady things and plot maliciously against the soon to be ex. That’s a unhealed dangerous person. A sign that the couple’s time together is surely up. Interference will help guide you out that mess because the soul must be allowed to evolve. It has no choice. The sooner we all learn this, the better. Change your perspective and Interference will lead you to your diamond.

Don’t let others weigh in with their opinions, that type of interference should be dealt with, personally. It’s not their business. Misery loves company. Don’t allow foolishness in. People evolve and outgrow one another daily, that is no crime . The crime is only when one begins to plot on how to keep another stagnate or to do them harm…The lying to and dragging the other person along. You know better, grow your trifling butt up. You know that you aren’t allowed to own people. That’s madness. Go buy your behind a therapy dog or something because you need help sorting out life, for real. That’s more slang.

Own your truth, speak your piece and move on peaceably. Grow up. Nobody wants someone trying to guilt them to be with or stay with them. That’s codependency. Toxic. All must evolve. We’ve got to change our views on how we treat others. Let who wants to go, go. Sure it hurts, if you’re the one not ready to let go but let go you must. Or…The Divine will allow interferences to shut the union down. No one is exempt. No one is allowed to keep another person stuck or stagnate.

Should one not accept the time has come for change, the Universe will allow interferences, to help all parties evolve and move along. Willingly or not. It always better to bend, than to break. Why do you think Suzy home-wrecker showed up in the first place? That interference will either come in and shut down your union or force you both to evolve. Y’all can both agree to walk away or heal. Either way, change is here and things will never be the same.

You both will need to decide. That’s why a mistress appeared. To move things along. When you are both healed, those pressure test don’t phase the union because the Self Love in both parties will protect it from mistresses, etc. but when left unhealed, not dealt with, it can and will destroy the union. It’s inevitable. You get to go do it all over again with someone new but with the same issues. How’s that to motivate and inspire one’s healing? Cyclical lessons over and over, every generation, each lifetime until your soul gets it. Isn’t that great? LOL

Interferences are absolutely necessary in life because it helps people that “refuse” to do their inner work (childhood issues), heal…get it? Look, you will either “Sh*t or get off the Pot.” But it won’t remain the same. The choice is no longer up to you. That’s more slang people. I could go on and on but that’s enough for now. Y’all get it. I want to help you guys look over your lives and see how important our healing really is. Self love is healing.

It’s not about shopping or buying a car, it’s about healing the heart and allowing the Soul to evolve. And, Evolve we must and will, people. Updated 3/2/23

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~Triddy Kat💋

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