One Up

Have you ever experienced someone mad at you, just because they can’t be you…so they try to one up you? The term: One up is basically slang, hood lingo for: upstaging someone but it’s deep rooted in jealousy. It’s the weirdest thing ever. People secretly try to one up someone they feel threatened by. Mind you, you may not be aware of any person, feeling threatened by you. You’re just being yourself, but the hater is boiling hot mad at you, for you, just being you. LOL. So they do, weirdo stuff, to try to one up you.

I’ve had this happen to me plenty of times. I just laugh at it all. I can only say, “Better you, than me, Dear.” Please. I can’t picture myself giving anyone that much energy, “I’m too busy doing me.” LOL. I promise y’all, LiL’ Kim said it best…”You wanna be this Queen Bee but you can’t be, that’s why you mad at me!” Let me find out that’s why y’all really doing the one up… out of pure, Jealousy. Ha…You’re wild for that one!!

The one up is just plain ole goofy in my book. Example, You get a new car, they go get a new car, etc. You cop this outfit, now they go out and cop it too. Slang. He dates her, now you just have to date her. She dated him, so now you are pressed to date him too. Really people? Umm, How old are we? LOL. It’s just “Goof Troops” out here but people do some weird things when they feel threatened. Don’t they? Just please….Try not to be one of them.

To me, it’s basically, a fan. So try not to be mad at the one, trying to one up. Obviously, “They like your style”...but don’t know how to tell you that yet….Poor Tink Tink, LOL.

Keep shining.

~Triddy Kat💋

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