Have you broken all of your old soul ties? That’s the bond we share with people. Be it breaking bread with them, etc. Have you broken those soul ties with those that you don’t deal with anymore? It’s important. May I suggest one reflect and then go severe those ties. There’s probably a pretty good reason you don’t deal with certain people anymore. That’s certainly very smart of you. That was step one. Now, step two. Pull back your energy from all of those old connections. Leave the past in the past. Forgive yourself and others then move on with your life.
It is essential to leave the past, behind you. Sure, one must revisit the past, in order to move, forward, but that’s it. Apostle Paul says, “Pressing forward, forgetting things which are behind me.” I suggest that we all do that too. I had people that were supposed to be my loved ones and they were the main ones, creating the most dangerous obstacles in my path. They were the main ones, lying on me and spreading all kinds of false rumors on my name. Just some real pitiful characters. That’s until I found out that it was them, then, I shut ‘em down and didn’t look back. I don’t give a darn about foolishness.
I don’t need anyone’s help with adding confusion to my life. If I catch someone pulling me into confusion, I separate myself from them. They aren’t for me. Period. That’s slang. I don’t care if it’s blood, friend or lover… “I’m out.” I am not dealing with any shady bunch of people. These people need to heal. They are too easily overtaken by dark forces. Watch out for that: “Remember the time” person. Yet; They so often forget to include, “Remember, the time I tried to set you up?” So let them keep their fake love. It’s usually a trap attached to strolling down memory lane with people that refuse to heal. Pleasantly keep yourself away from it. It’s a mess. You’ve healed, you don’t need any karmic relationships, going in to your future with you. Break that soul tie. Be kind but stay out of drama, you will be stuck in illusions. Read the article,”The Set Up” click link here, THE SET UP
Remember this, “You don’t owe people sh*t but to love them.” Never forget that. If they’re toxic, you better Love them from a distance. Don’t let others guilt you. That’s a trap. I don’t care who they are to you. You are never obliged to be or stay where you don’t want to be anymore. No one owns you. Step out of illusions. Use your intuition. Emotionally unavailable people need to heal… And, so do the people that get into relationships with them. I speak from major experience with them. Don’t do it. Let ’em heal.
I’ll speak from experience here, both parties need to heal. If you’re attracted to them, you’re broken too. Go heal. What’s cute about being emotionally invisible to your partner or mate? That’s some trash you’ve learned growing up in a home with an emotionally unavailable care giver. So now, you’re repeating the pattern in your adult life. Trauma bonding. Messing with a person acting just like that caregiver but you are supposed to be healing yourself now, not repeating the toxic pattern, again. Look at it, sure it hurts but the person that is emotionally unavailable is there to trigger that wound in you, so you can heal it. Don’t ignore it. Anything after that is on you. You can stay or go but don’t you dare let anyone fool you into thinking you must stay. They were sent to help you see that you require healing in that area. Nothing more. The rest is on you.
Do the work on you. You are to invest in you. Stop being so mad at them. They don’t owe you. You owe you. You are responsible for your own happiness, not others. They are doing their job. It was to come trigger you...enough to get you to do something about it. It’s still a soul tie until you heal and break it. Your soul tribe ain’t all heroes Boo. This is real life. It ain’t all sh*ts & giggles. It’s made up of protagonist and antagonist. Wake up. That’s evolution.
You can play blind all day that will change nothing. It’s not about them, it was about you now. I remember an ex, that was flighty as heck, I couldn’t understand that for the life of me. It never failed, as soon as we’d get emotionally close he’d bounce. I would be stuck in my head like what the heck just happened until I figured it out. It actually hurt to form emotional bonds with others because they associated emotional closeness with pain because of their parent being on drugs growing up. So they associated being in love with abandonment because of their childhood. I did too until I realized the toxic patterning being repeated in my adult life over and over. See how your person/mate reflects your inner wounds back at you? Read the article, “Patterns” click link here, Patterns
Now, I’d just do my toxic patterning another way. For example, I would stay with them but if we got too close, I’d sabotage the relationship with toxic behavior. I’d start cheating or I’d go to the other extreme becoming too dang clingy. Yes, it’s different actions but it got the same result. A break up. A relationship, with two people that actually cared deeply for one another but weren’t healed. So yes, you can get with them if you want to but you are in for a hard lesson. It’s best to remove yourself from that scenario until y’all both can heal..it’s not going to work for either of you anyway until you guys are both healed. But y’all can try. Good luck, you’ll need it. By the way, you will not be excused from hurting people because you need to heal. That’s on you. Stop being a coward and seek help from Source to go face your childhood demons. Grow up & cut those soul ties.
Always encourage people to heal. Stop playing with people’s heart with your emotionally immature ass Stop letting people play with your heart. All that becomes karma. You are accruing karmic debt. They should want you healed and healthy… And, you should want them healed and heathy. Period.
Now, I’m going to step on a lot of toes here. Married people crack me up with this one. One can make vows but when you’re no longer keeping those vows, it’s a wrap should the other want out. No one has to give someone another chance. That’s solely up to you. If you’ve messed up that’s on you too. Why should I suffer? You need to heal but I don’t have to wait on you and vice verse. A lot of people are delusional thinking people must take them back because they want to work on things. Kick rocks. No one can make you work something out that will only be for you alone, to decide. One isn’t obliged to stay in that union with you especially, if your butt is out there creeping. That makes the marriage contract, null and void.
Contrary to popular belief, infidelity can be survived but not with a person that hasn’t healed. Stop listening to miserable people. You can always change your mind. People fall in and out of love daily. Now, if you choose to stay, heal and let the past go. If not, you’re misleading the other person on purpose. The thing is, do all things with decency and in order. Stop playing all these silly mind games, grow up. Tell them, “ No, thank you” and keep it pushing, if you know your butt can’t forgive the transgression. But know this, you have no rights to go back and punish someone. You are not Source, so please go sit your “Illusions of Grandeur” butt down somewhere.
People that are stuck on revenge are bitter. They are not healed so don’t trust them. Leave them alone. Bump that title mess. I don’t care who it is romantic or not. People that are hell bent on revenge are nothing but trouble. Relationships are relationships. All, aren’t always in a romantic nature. Petty people, do petty things cut that mess off. That’s only a life lesson. They are not to move forward with you, you will be stuck in a toxic cycle until you heal. Bump fools. Hurt people, don’t hurt people, crazy people do. I don’t care if they pop up at the front door. Leave ’em out there, don’t open any doors to vindictive people. Grow up, you know they’re a damn fool, quit entertaining and playing with them.
Sure, briefly going back to the past is required to move forward. Someone stuck in the past hasn’t healed yet. And people that want to live in the past are stuck there. Pray for them but don’t you dare let them attach to your spirit. That’s a burdensome soul tie. You can’t force people to heal. Remove yourself. Don’t get me wrong, an injustice that has occurred in the past is not easy to drop. Focus on healing so it can change…and, trust in Divine Timing. Do all the practical things that you can and then, you must release it. Read the article, “Release” click link here, https://triddykatsmeow.com/release Soul ties attract energy vampires so beware. No more rehashing it. Only when absolutely necessary like a court date. If it’s not legal action required, tell those so interested in it to buy a book on it. It’s a trap. The pain keeps you stuck in that toxic cycle. Reliving it. Close that door. Shut it down. Release all energy vampires attached to the toxic situation from the past. They covertly feed off your energy. That’s dark magic, a toxic soul tie…eww. Follow the Infamous rap group, Public Enemy’s words, “Shut ‘Em Down!”
You’d be surprised how many people from your past were covertly codependent on you and your energy. How would one know? That’s those people that see you moving forward and they do things to secretly try to stop you. These are the people that murder their mates when they break up. That’s not love…to heck with that crime of passion title. That’s strictly based on CODEPENDENCY of another person’s energy. Protect your energy, always pull your energy back from all relationships. That includes: old employers, colleagues, family members, lovers and friends. No one should ever be dependent on your energy. Cut it all off. That’s a soul tie. Energy vampires.
If you’ve removed certain people from your life, it’s best that you let them stay gone. Forgive them but leave it alone. Wake up people. Most are NOT returning to help you, that hater returns to make sure that you never complete “SELF-Actualization.” That’s not love people. Y’all don’t need me to tell y’all that. Cut that damn cord. Break soul ties, especially toxic ones. They’re literally being covertly sent back to you by dark forces to “drain” you of your Life Force. There are a lot of undercover haters smiling in your face. But who cares? They’re in the past for a reason.
Honey, if I cut it off I don’t want it back. I know it will only bring drama in to my life until I heal. They’ve only come back for their supply…you! They need your energy because they’re an energy vampire. Leave that mess alone. Most only come back to disturb your peace of mind. Break that soul tie you know it’s unhealthy. Those are miserable, petty people wanting you to be miserable and petty too. Leave that mess alone. You’re grown now, act like it.
Keep Shining.
~Triddy Kat 💋
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